The dates don’t add up...

Anytime I meet someone new these days, I wonder if it’s gonna be someone trustworthy. I’ve been keeping my EYES OPEN ever since.

People think they can play me 

🤣🙏🏻😂🙌🏻

 To all the trolls who’ve tried to follow my social media 😝👀🙄😜

 

The Truth About "THE TRUTH is Coming..." She's she's a FUCKIN liar & a clout chaser, didn't care who she hurt in the process.  

Soo.. Why you still here? Huh? move ON... 🙄 

 

Truth

What do you even want? What's your plan here visiting this post? What is this?  

Why does THIS page have SO many views? 

 JUST TO KEEP COMING BACK HERE AND WATCHING TO SEE IF I DO ANYTHING

DO YOU WANT ME TO?! 

What do you want!?

 What the FUCK do YOU WANT?!

WHAT DO YOU WANT!?!?!? 

🙏

🦄

Here Enjoy this Song instead.

 

Gaslighting & Isolation

 Everything you see here was taken from the links of the corresponding article sections

I did NOT write any of this. This is a collective of a couple articles about  Narcissist & their Victims.

(clickable words are the pages they came from)

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Gaslighting and Social Isolation 

 The term Social Distancing likely entered the majority of our phrasebooks in mid-March 2020, but the practice has long been a successful tool of coercive and controlling behaviour by perpetrators. Social isolation successfully shuts down routes to their victim’s safety support networks and instils a sense of reliance on them, (the perpetrator), and them alone. A rise in stress and strain on mental health, financial difficulties and increased alcohol and drug consumption due to the recent global pandemic, has left societies vulnerable even more at risk when trapped in their own homes.

• ​Gaslighting is mind-altering abuse.
• Gaslighting is insidious and difficult to prove, as there are rarely identifiable physical scars.
• A Gaslighter’s goal is a concise effort to keep the other partner in the relationship from their rightful, equal status.

Often the perpetrator is charismatic and the sort of person generally well-known and liked. While gaslighting tends to be associated with narcissistic personalities as traits commonly overlap, there’s no definitive textbook case. Gaslighting however is regarded as the first “go-to” in a narcissist’s toolbox.

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the Following is from THIS article 

What is a Gaslighter Personality?

While there is no such disorder as gaslighter personality disorder, perhaps there should be. These individuals tend to have authoritarian personalities. They find absolutely no fault in themselves, but they find it very easy to point out the shortcomings of other people.

Many gaslighters do have some type of personality disorder. Antisocial personality disorder is very common among people who display this type of behavior. They may be referred to as a sociopath or psychopath because of their lack of empathy for others, manipulative tendencies and desire for mind control. Some people with antisocial personality disorder can become violent.

Another personality disorder that is common among gaslighters is narcissism. People with narcissistic personalities tend to have an inflated sense of self-esteem. They make it a point to make everything about them and they get offended if they are not getting enough attention. A lot of narcissists will appear to be helping others, but they always have some type of self-serving agenda underneath.

What are Some Common Gaslighting Tactics?

There are several forms of gaslighting and this type of behavior often happens in stages. Some of the most common tactics people use include:

• Denying something for the purpose of confusing you. They may have said something, but even if there is clear proof, they will deny it. The purpose is to deny the reality of the situation and to get you to feel as though you imagined it.
• Telling lies about you. Gaslighters frequently tell lies and they act as though they are shocked when they are confronted about it. These individuals do not try to be sneaky about their lies; instead, they tell them with such conviction that it can make you doubt the truth.
• Actions that do not line up with what they are saying. Gaslighters will typically twist the truth to make you question your own sanity. But their actions are very different from what they are saying.
• Projecting onto others. Gaslighters will frequently accuse others for their own faults or shortcomings. Cheating spouses will often accuse their partners of cheating in an attempt to take the focus off themselves.
• Manipulating you by using your friends or loved ones against you. They may try to get you to turn against people you care about as a way to isolate you and give the gaslighter more control over you.

What is it That Turns People Into Gaslighters?

People are typically born introverts or extroverts, but they are not born to be gaslighters. This is learned behavior that comes from repeated social conditioning. Gaslighters will often experience it for themselves so they feel the effects of it. Or, they may see it evidenced elsewhere in their lives. Regardless, they come to view it as a tool that can be used to help them get what they want. It is a cognitive strategy that can work when it is not being seen for what it really is.

What are Some Steps You Can Take if You are Being Gaslighted?

First and foremost, it is important to consider therapy if you feel you have been a victim of gaslighting. A therapist can help you understand these behaviors and they can assist you in deciphering the truth from the lies you may have been told.

Additional steps to take include:

• Understanding what is happening between you and the gaslighter and calling it what it is – a dysfunctional relationship that is not benefiting you at all.
• Learn how to tell the truth from the lies. It might help to write down your conversations with this person in a journal so you can look at them later. Do you see any patterns? Write down how this person makes you feel too.
• Decide if you are engaging in a power struggle with the gaslighter. If you find that you keep having the same conversation over and over again, but no results are forthcoming, you might be getting gaslighted.
• Think about what your life might be like without that destructive relationship. This may cause you to feel anxious, but keep your perspective positive and imagine what good things could come of not talking with that person anymore.
• Journal about your feelings and give yourself permission to feel anything you are feeling. Look for triggers that cause negative reactions in yourself.
• Open up with your friends about what is going on. Ask them to be honest with you about the other person’s behavior. Do they see it as gaslighting?

How do You Know if You are a Victim of Gaslighting Emotional Abuse?

A lot of people who are being gaslighted do not realize it. These individuals are actually victims of gaslighting emotional abuse, which can be incredibly psychologically damaging. You might be a victim if you:

• Find that you frequently second-guess yourself on just about everything.
• Find yourself asking yourself if you are too sensitive several times a day.
• Find that you often feel confused or crazy.
• Find that you are constantly apologizing to people when there is no need to.
• Feel unhappy, even though there are good things happening in your life.
• Find yourself making excuses for your partner’s behavior.
• Withhold information from people so that you can avoid having to make excuses.
• Feel as though there is something wrong, but you cannot put your finger on what it is.

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If your partner is isolating you from the people you care about, or making you feel like ANY of these things. Please find a SAFE way to get out of the relationship. THEY DON'T LOVE YOU, they NEED you. YOU don't Deserve it. 

If they want you to stay, and you want to leave, they find any way to make you stay. they will turn people against you, leave you with no one to turn to so you have no one left. 

If you would like more information, check out some of these articles:

The Invisible Ways A Narcissist Isolates You

And if you wanna READ something that will truly captivate you and break your heart, read 

BE MY BABY: HOW I SURVIVED MASCARA, MINISKIRTS, AND By Ronnie Spector & Vince

Tight Rope

I keep KNOWING there's better for me, 

Because I Feel it aching in my soul

I know Great Abundance is for me, 

But I'm just barely Balancing on the Tight Rope

With No Carabiners or anchored Wires, No Safety Net or to Catch me if I Fall

but All the While, I don't wish, I don't HOPE,

I Just Know

Why I think Yeti on Masked Singer could be Aaron Carter! OR Omarion lol!

 Ok I know it very well could be Omarion which I thought at first, and even STILL in pieces sometimes lots lead to him to... but not as many  as ALL THE CLUES seem to SCREAM AARON CARTER to me!! and the more I listen the more his voice does too. Is it just wishful thinking?

Yeti is ALL ABOUT love Love LOVE, Aphrodite TEES... HIS Love Brand? THE Love tees SWEATSHIRTS at Aaron Carter Dot Com?? His LOVE album? 

Rabbit behind the heart ( hes the year of the Rabbit 1987)

  (though Omarion has the love & hip hop clue and the ice box clue, aarons got WARM SNOW with THE WINTER HAVENS

Yeti Grew up with many women (all his sisters and mom) the Golden Girls clue ALSO made me think of Iko Iko the grandma song, THAT OR FOOLS GOLD.... OR that GOLDEN GIRLS AND AARON ARE BOTH FROM FLORIDA?????

“The WILD CARDER” comment from Nick Cannon, and the fact that Both sang New Edition songs, 

Bull Dog  the WILD CARDER sang Candy Girl... Nick had said “ That’s what I was trying to do LAST WEEK” made me think he was redirecting his performance as a CLUE...

 AARONS SONG I Want Candy... 🙏🏻🙌🏻💖

He grew up as a child star-most yetis grow up to be monsters, (rough lives from what they’ve been through and get bashed by the public) 

He’s the wildest wild card yet! So is Aaron lol 😂  I WANT HIM ON THE SHOW so bad! EVEN IF he SAYS he won't, I DON"T care I believe in him! 

AND I KNOW HE WATCHES, sometimes were watching at the same time! (even when it isn't on!)

Ok SOMEONE TOLD ME MEL just followed MASKED SINGER TODAY 😳

The FireWood could refer to his Fire sign OR Aarons song Pyro, the Hearts could ALSO refer to his song Crush On You, 

PLUS he’s got kind of a bad rep like the abominable snowman but he’s really just misunderstood.

Then the Vanilla Ice thing is a Personal Reason I think it’s him, can’t explain it really. Just a feeling 

 the more and more I DIG the more I connect to him. 

i could have another Wishful thinking on my hands, but something tells me about this one...

AND a few of my friends agree! 

UPDATE 

 these are lyrics to aarons song "im not to young but im not too old"

I'm tellin you again, I`ll wind up in the video,

catch me in the studio

That's my life bro!

It's in my blood, It ain`t my fault.

You wanna step to me?

We can take it to the asfault.

Shoot some hoops, kid, Slam dunk the funk

Battle on the roller blades you callin me a punk?

Bring on the skateboards or the BMX

Show me what you got

Is that all? Please Next...

but then there's this for Omarion

"With a little help from his mother, we found out more about Omarion’s previous professional rollerblading career, his made-up girlfriend Jazzy and a hopeful sequel for You Got Served. On top of all that, the man does a great 50 Cent impersonation."

from this article

2007 Rewind – Omarion: Three Times Dope

I'm VERY discouraged! 

Hold the EFF UP... Omarion loves jambalaya, not donuts... 

(though some say it’s for his O IN OMARION...  but they could do Onion rings too...)

though some say it’s for his O IN OMARION... 

but AARON LOVES DONUTS... he ATE DONUTS on the way to his Boxing Conference 🍩

Aaand he RIDES DONUTS TOO!

Omarion, don’t know if he’s into country 

For the “the line dancing clue”

BUT

AARON is known to listen to country from time to time. EARL DOES TOO LMFAO 😂🙏🏻🙌🏻

He even has some work for an album possibly! He’s talked about it in the past!!

I KNOW I’VE SAID THIS SAID THIS BEFORE with Ice Cream

  YETI, PuhhhhLEEEAASE be AARON CARTER! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

dang it #JoeyContino is Probably Right it's MOST likely Omarion LMFAO, but I DON'T care, I DON'T HAVE to be right, I can still want who I want there,  I can STILL guess BOTH lmfao...  

It's a GAME, and Maybe it will happen one day (HINT HINT) or maybe I see a future Masked Dancer? 😉 🔮

#maskedsinger #yetimask #aaroncarter #omarion #yeti #mask #dayzmaskedguesses #themaskedsinger #warmsnow #thewinterhavens #candygirl #newedition #nickcannon #thenickcannon #bulldogmask #thewildcarder #wildcard #wildcarder #warmsnow #thewinterhavens 

All I can say

All I Can Say

by Daynah Pedersen

All I can say is 

All I can see is 

the pain in your eyes.

All I can say is 

all I can feel is the glimmer of life

slipping out of you.

As every day passes

every day you keep lifting those glasses

every night, you fake those smiles

unknowing, uncaring glances, 

all the while

They don't care to know, care to see

That they won't let you be who you need to be. 

All I can say is 

All I can see is 

there's a dark shadow above you

All I can say is 

all I can feel is that you think it's taboo

to share that you're unhappy

Well I don't

Please be true,

Just be YOU

#allicansay #sparklep8nter #sparklep8nterpoem #poem #poetry 

🧿 ✨💕 Grateful to be ALIVE this BIRTHDAY!!!

Hey, SO sorry it's been so freakin long. I hope everyone is staying super healthy, washing your HANDS, living your best lives. I truly appreciate all your continued views through the years. Sooo I wanted to keep you updated on whats going on with ME! FIRST OFF, NEW YEARS was CRAZY AF! I DIDN'T EVEN GO OUT AND PARTY! I spent new years in the ER, after spending hours in the, powder room... lets just say I had nothing left in me. My face was PALE af, my lips, life draining from my face, I could barely MOVE from bed to bathroom... I spent half the morning emptying every part of my stomach contents in every possible way. I lost SEVERAL LBS., and not healthily, Not by choice either. Sorry tmi.

 

 

 For the entire week, from ER to just basic care, I was on a restricted diet for almost a week, (well continues til today, really, still need a checkup) But what I need to say is this. WHEN I go into the hospital, there should be an ALLERGY LIST of things I cannot take whatsoever. 

 

If I go to the hospital for any reason I usually repeat my DO NOT give me list, just in case. well THIS time, I mentioned one of my DO NOT GIVE ME items, and the very next morning that's what the NURSE TRIED TO GIVE ME. SO... I kindly let them know this should  be on my DO NOT GIVE ME LIST, since I always say it every time I go in for any big reason, but most RECENTLY said it in TRIAGE just HOURS earlier... SHE did not confirm what I had said, my ONE allergy list item I already gave, she didn't make sure it was on the list, or added to the list, she flat out IGNORED IT, and the nurse almost gave me something that gives me no relief, only more pain... 

 

So THEN for the next week, I'm given another drug for pain, but it keeps on making me sick to my stomach, OVER AND OVER, 9 times per day for 4 days... and they tried to send me home with a prescription... 

 

 

WHEN I SAW THE PRESCRIPTION I CRIED MY EYES OUT. I WAS SO ANGRY. THEY had told me OVER AND OVER again what the GENERIC name of it was, not the MEDICAL NAME of the ITEM ON MY ALLERGY LIST THAT SAYS IT MAKES ME VOMIT VIOLENTLY!! FOR 15 YEARS this DRUG that I took ONE or 2 times and kept making me violently ill, I asked them never to give it to me again, because of how much it makes me sick. for 15 YEARS I said PLEASE don't give me this one drug, as it makes me SICK, I KNOW IT...

 

so this time, they DID give me the DRUG, but DIDN'T TELL ME THE MEDICAL NAME, and I didn't KNOW THE GENERIC NAME. THEY MADE ME VIOLENTLY ILL and lose I DON'T KNOW how much weight, lost a whole dress size, maybe more in 5 days in the whole process. Bruises all up and down my arms from the IV mistakes, and my other IV spot FINALLY isn't hard as a rock, and red anymore (10 days later nearly) 

I CAN move my arms now! YAY!

 

 ANYWAY. I feel like I'M LUCKY TO BE ALIVE AFTER ALL THIS.

 

I feel like I almost died from an intestinal INFECTION, and to kill the pain they give me a medication I'VE BEEN asking them NEVER TO EVER GIVE ME AGAIN, for years... over a decade, why did NO ONE ADD IT TO MY LIST?! the NURSES COULDN'T FIGURE OUT WHY I COULDN'T KEEP IT DOWN EVEN with ANTI NAUSEA pills. well I FLUSHED MY PRESCRIPTION. NEVER EVER AGAIN. THIS hospital may have a little talk from me soon. or my lawyer. 

 

  I DON'T have a phone, I haven't for weeks, my computer is dying so I can't use that much either. (but hopes in one in the near future!) 

 

ANYWAY I just wanted to let you know, ANY sale I make on my page from my POSH Posh would GREATLY HELP my situation.

 Any sales of my ART as well, is greatly welcomed. ALSO IT'S MY BIRTHDAY NEXT WEEK! 

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 Don't forget to bookmark both pages, this one and my posh page. The link I sent you to was my Specials page, all the best deals right now, then there's categories for Face, Hands, CBD products too! 

I will be posting a NEW Morning and Nightly Routine as SOON as I CAN! Got some Posh Serums and body cremes to try! Follow me here, and on Social Media. I will be back on INSTAGRAM SOON ENOUGH! FOR NOW I AM LURKIN TWITTER... and Youtube!

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