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Thursday, April 29, 2021

Gaslighting & Isolation

 Everything you see here was taken from the links of the corresponding article sections

I did NOT write any of this. This is a collective of a couple articles about  Narcissist & their Victims.

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Gaslighting and Social Isolation 

 The term Social Distancing likely entered the majority of our phrasebooks in mid-March 2020, but the practice has long been a successful tool of coercive and controlling behaviour by perpetrators. Social isolation successfully shuts down routes to their victim’s safety support networks and instils a sense of reliance on them, (the perpetrator), and them alone. A rise in stress and strain on mental health, financial difficulties and increased alcohol and drug consumption due to the recent global pandemic, has left societies vulnerable even more at risk when trapped in their own homes.

  • ​Gaslighting is mind-altering abuse.
  • Gaslighting is insidious and difficult to prove, as there are rarely identifiable physical scars.
  • A Gaslighter’s goal is a concise effort to keep the other partner in the relationship from their rightful, equal status.

Often the perpetrator is charismatic and the sort of person generally well-known and liked. While gaslighting tends to be associated with narcissistic personalities as traits commonly overlap, there’s no definitive textbook case. Gaslighting however is regarded as the first “go-to” in a narcissist’s toolbox.

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the Following is from THIS article 


What is a Gaslighter Personality?

While there is no such disorder as gaslighter personality disorder, perhaps there should be. These individuals tend to have authoritarian personalitiesThey find absolutely no fault in themselves, but they find it very easy to point out the shortcomings of other people.

Many gaslighters do have some type of personality disorder. Antisocial personality disorder is very common among people who display this type of behavior. They may be referred to as a sociopath or psychopath because of their lack of empathy for othersmanipulative tendencies and desire for mind controlSome people with antisocial personality disorder can become violent.

Another personality disorder that is common among gaslighters is narcissism. People with narcissistic personalities tend to have an inflated sense of self-esteem. They make it a point to make everything about them and they get offended if they are not getting enough attention. A lot of narcissists will appear to be helping others, but they always have some type of self-serving agenda underneath.

What are Some Common Gaslighting Tactics?

There are several forms of gaslighting and this type of behavior often happens in stages. Some of the most common tactics people use include:

  • Denying something for the purpose of confusing you. They may have said something, but even if there is clear proof, they will deny it. The purpose is to deny the reality of the situation and to get you to feel as though you imagined it.
  • Telling lies about you. Gaslighters frequently tell lies and they act as though they are shocked when they are confronted about it. These individuals do not try to be sneaky about their lies; instead, they tell them with such conviction that it can make you doubt the truth.
  • Actions that do not line up with what they are saying. Gaslighters will typically twist the truth to make you question your own sanityBut their actions are very different from what they are saying.
  • Projecting onto others. Gaslighters will frequently accuse others for their own faults or shortcomings. Cheating spouses will often accuse their partners of cheating in an attempt to take the focus off themselves.
  • Manipulating you by using your friends or loved ones against you. They may try to get you to turn against people you care about as a way to isolate you and give the gaslighter more control over you.



What is it That Turns People Into Gaslighters?

People are typically born introverts or extroverts, but they are not born to be gaslighters. This is learned behavior that comes from repeated social conditioning. Gaslighters will often experience it for themselves so they feel the effects of it. Or, they may see it evidenced elsewhere in their lives. Regardless, they come to view it as a tool that can be used to help them get what they want. It is a cognitive strategy that can work when it is not being seen for what it really is.




What are Some Steps You Can Take if You are Being Gaslighted?

First and foremost, it is important to consider therapy if you feel you have been a victim of gaslighting. A therapist can help you understand these behaviors and they can assist you in deciphering the truth from the lies you may have been told.

Additional steps to take include:

  • Understanding what is happening between you and the gaslighter and calling it what it is – a dysfunctional relationship that is not benefiting you at all.
  • Learn how to tell the truth from the lies. It might help to write down your conversations with this person in a journal so you can look at them later. Do you see any patterns? Write down how this person makes you feel too.
  • Decide if you are engaging in a power struggle with the gaslighter. If you find that you keep having the same conversation over and over again, but no results are forthcoming, you might be getting gaslighted.
  • Think about what your life might be like without that destructive relationship. This may cause you to feel anxious, but keep your perspective positive and imagine what good things could come of not talking with that person anymore.
  • Journal about your feelings and give yourself permission to feel anything you are feeling. Look for triggers that cause negative reactions in yourself.
  • Open up with your friends about what is going on. Ask them to be honest with you about the other person’s behavior. Do they see it as gaslighting?

How do You Know if You are a Victim of Gaslighting Emotional Abuse?

A lot of people who are being gaslighted do not realize it. These individuals are actually victims of gaslighting emotional abuse, which can be incredibly psychologically damaging. You might be a victim if you:

  • Find that you frequently second-guess yourself on just about everything.
  • Find yourself asking yourself if you are too sensitive several times a day.
  • Find that you often feel confused or crazy.
  • Find that you are constantly apologizing to people when there is no need to.
  • Feel unhappy, even though there are good things happening in your life.
  • Find yourself making excuses for your partner’s behavior.
  • Withhold information from people so that you can avoid having to make excuses.
  • Feel as though there is something wrong, but you cannot put your finger on what it is.
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If your partner is isolating you from the people you care about, or making you feel like ANY of these things. Please find a SAFE way to get out of the relationship. THEY DON'T LOVE YOU, they NEED you. YOU don't Deserve it. 


If they want you to stay, and you want to leave, they find any way to make you stay. they will turn people against you, leave you with no one to turn to so you have no one left. 



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Tuesday, April 27, 2021

Tight Rope

I keep KNOWING there's better for me, 

Because I Feel it aching in my soul

I know Great Abundance is for me, 

But I'm just barely Balancing on the Tight Rope

With No Carabiners or anchored Wires, No Safety Net or to Catch me if I Fall

but All the While, I don't wish, I don't HOPE,

I Just Know



Wednesday, April 21, 2021

Why I think Yeti on Masked Singer could be Aaron Carter! OR Omarion lol!

 Ok I know it very well could be Omarion which I thought at first, and even STILL in pieces sometimes lots lead to him to... but not as many  as ALL THE CLUES seem to SCREAM AARON CARTER to me!! and the more I listen the more his voice does too. Is it just wishful thinking?






Yeti is ALL ABOUT love Love LOVE, Aphrodite TEES... HIS Love Brand? THE Love tees SWEATSHIRTS at Aaron Carter Dot Com?? His LOVE album


Rabbit behind the heart ( hes the year of the Rabbit 1987)

  (though Omarion has the love & hip hop clue and the ice box clue, aarons got WARM SNOW with THE WINTER HAVENS



Yeti Grew up with many women (all his sisters and mom) the Golden Girls clue ALSO made me think of Iko Iko the grandma song, THAT OR FOOLS GOLD.... OR that GOLDEN GIRLS AND AARON ARE BOTH FROM FLORIDA?????


“The WILD CARDER” comment from Nick Cannon, and the fact that Both sang New Edition songs, 

Bull Dog  the WILD CARDER sang Candy Girl... Nick had said “ That’s what I was trying to do LAST WEEK” made me think he was redirecting his performance as a CLUE...

 AARONS SONG I Want Candy... 🙏🏻🙌🏻💖


He grew up as a child star-most yetis grow up to be monsters, (rough lives from what they’ve been through and get bashed by the public) 

He’s the wildest wild card yet! So is Aaron lol 😂  I WANT HIM ON THE SHOW so bad! EVEN IF he SAYS he won't, I DON"T care I believe in him! 

AND I KNOW HE WATCHES, sometimes were watching at the same time! (even when it isn't on!)

Ok SOMEONE TOLD ME MEL just followed MASKED SINGER TODAY 😳

The FireWood could refer to his Fire sign OR Aarons song Pyro, the Hearts could ALSO refer to his song Crush On You, 

PLUS he’s got kind of a bad rep like the abominable snowman but he’s really just misunderstood.


Then the Vanilla Ice thing is a Personal Reason I think it’s him, can’t explain it really. Just a feeling 



 the more and more I DIG the more I connect to him. 

i could have another Wishful thinking on my hands, but something tells me about this one...

AND a few of my friends agree! 





UPDATE 


 these are lyrics to aarons song "im not to young but im not too old"

I'm tellin you again, I`ll wind up in the video,

catch me in the studio

That's my life bro!

It's in my blood, It ain`t my fault.

You wanna step to me?

We can take it to the asfault.

Shoot some hoops, kid, Slam dunk the funk

Battle on the roller blades you callin me a punk?

Bring on the skateboards or the BMX

Show me what you got

Is that all? Please Next...


but then there's this for Omarion

"With a little help from his mother, we found out more about Omarion’s previous professional rollerblading career, his made-up girlfriend Jazzy and a hopeful sequel for You Got Served. On top of all that, the man does a great 50 Cent impersonation."

from this article

2007 Rewind – Omarion: Three Times Dope


I'm VERY discouraged! 


Hold the EFF UP... Omarion loves jambalaya, not donuts... 

(though some say it’s for his O IN OMARION...  but they could do Onion rings too...)





though some say it’s for his O IN OMARION... 

but AARON LOVES DONUTS... he ATE DONUTS on the way to his Boxing Conference 🍩



Aaand he RIDES DONUTS TOO!

Omarion, don’t know if he’s into country 

For the “the line dancing clue”

BUT
AARON is known to listen to country from time to time. EARL DOES TOO LMFAO 😂🙏🏻🙌🏻

He even has some work for an album possibly! He’s talked about it in the past!!

  YETI, PuhhhhLEEEAASE be AARON CARTER! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻


dang it #JoeyContino is Probably Right it's MOST likely Omarion LMFAO, but I DON'T care, I DON'T HAVE to be right, I can still want who I want there,  I can STILL guess BOTH lmfao...  
It's a GAME, and Maybe it will happen one day (HINT HINT) or maybe I see a future Masked Dancer? 😉 🔮

#maskedsinger #yetimask #aaroncarter #omarion #yeti #mask #dayzmaskedguesses #themaskedsinger #warmsnow #thewinterhavens #candygirl #newedition #nickcannon #thenickcannon #bulldogmask #thewildcarder #wildcard #wildcarder #warmsnow #thewinterhavens 



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